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Tag: death

  • Reply to: I Wish I Could Talk to My Dad

    Inspired by a mate whose dad recently died, Kev Quirk shared his own experience of his father's death, and a particular ritual of his reminded me of one of my own.

    Read more - about 3 minutes (515 words)

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    • 1 comment
    • posted 20 April, 2026
  • Chloe (Krysten Ritter) speaks to Luther (Ray Ford) across a desk, while James Van Der Beek - playing a fictionalised version of himself - poses in the background to show off the jeans he's wearing.

    RIP James Van Der Beek

    James van der Beek died this week of bowel cancer; he was only a couple of years older than I am. I guess I'm at that point of my life where unexpectedly-early celebrity deaths might start being "around my age".

    I'm neither young nor angsty enough to enjoy a re-watch of Dawson's Creek, but I especially loved him in Don't Trust the B---- in Apartment 23 so maybe I'll re-watch that.

    Read more (94 words)

    • Note
    • posted 12 February, 2026
  • Jonah's Oak; a large and well-kept oak tree in the middle of a hedgerow, with plaques on and around it, with festival workings in the background.

    Found GCAJH34 Jonah's Oak

    This checkin to GCAJH34 Jonah's Oak reflects a geocaching.com log entry. See more of Dan's cache logs. My little tribe and I have, in some form of another, been attending Cropredy for decades: intermittently in the past, but lately with more regularity every year. For me, it's coincided with the growth of our family: I've …

    Read more (157 words)

    • Checkin
    • to GCAJH34
    • posted 9 August, 2025
  • Dan, wearing a warm weatherproof black jacket and a purple "Woo" woolen hat, alongside a 9-year-old girl wrapped up in a faux-leapordskin hat and an iridescent coat, against a snowy hillside with rolling clouds.

    That Moment When You Forget Somebody's Dead

    For the first time in years, perhaps, I had that "moment of forgotting my dad was dead" thing.

    Read more (256 words)

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    • 1 comment
    • posted 20 February, 2023
  • Reply to @ADumbGreyHam

    Dan replies to Adam's tweet about Dan's dad's public transport legacy.

    Read more (78 words)

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    • 1 comment
    • posted 15 October, 2019
  • Dan and his dad have breakfast in the garden.

    Dead Dad Day

    In an unusual exhibition of grief, Dan explores his relationship with Dead Dad Day.

    Read more (421 words)

    • Article
    • 9 comments
    • posted 12 March, 2019
  • Image representing post: The Ball and The Box

    The Ball and The Box

    Thread by @LaurenHerschel: "After what has been a surprisingly okayish Christmas, I had a moment today in SuperStore. Saw a lady who reminded me of my 92yo grandma, who […]" (threadreaderapp.com) Thread by @LaurenHerschel: "After what has been a surprisingly okayish Christmas, I had a moment today in SuperStore. Saw a lady who remindedndma, who …

    Read more (279 words)

    • Repost
    • posted 27 February, 2019
  • Image representing post: Carry Fire

    Carry Fire

    "My dad'd love this!" Dan thinks as he listens to Robert Plant's new album, in the first case of him momentarily-forgetting-his-dad's-death in almost a year. It's a pretty good album, regardless.

    Read more - about 3 minutes (506 words)

    • Article
    • 3 comments
    • posted 6 November, 2017
  • Annabel plays-dead after "falling off a mountain".

    Playing Dead - Toddlers Gone Weird

    At the request of a toddler, Dan spends an afternoon repeatedly re-enacting the circumstances of his father's death.

    Read more - about 4 minutes (726 words)

    • Article
    • 4 comments
    • posted 26 May, 2017
  • Image representing post: TIL that in 1952, 4,000 people were killed during a five-day smog in London

    TIL that in 1952, 4,000 people were killed during a five-day smog in London

    The Great Smog of London, or Great Smog of 1952, was a severe air-pollution event that affected the British capital of London in early December 1952. A period of cold weather, combined with an anticyclone and windless conditions, collected airborne pollutants—mostly arising from the use of coal—to form a thick layer of smog over the …

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    • Repost
    • posted 25 April, 2013
  • TIL that more than 1 in every 365 people die on their birthday, and nobody's sure why


    A study by Swiss researchers has generated a startling statistic - you are 14% more likely to die on your birthday than on any other day of the year. But why should that be?
    As the researchers put it, "birthdays… appear to end up in a lethal way more frequently than expected ."

    This is …

    Read more (186 words)

    • Repost
    • posted 2 March, 2013
  • Ruth's pregnancy test, showing "pregnant".

    Hello 2013: Goodbye 2012

    In a belated blog post, Dan looks back on 2012, and describes it as one of the hardest years of his life.

    Read more - about 9 minutes (2028 words)

    • Article
    • 12 comments
    • posted 26 February, 2013
  • A close-up of my dad's Will, showing where it was clearly re-stapled.

    A Broken Oath

    You wouldn't have thought it possible to incorrectly witness an oath or affirmation, would you? But somehow, a solicitor that Dan paid did exactly that.

    Read more (214 words)

    • Article
    • 1 comment
    • posted 4 November, 2012
  • A close-up of my dad's Will, showing where it was clearly re-stapled.

    4 Things You Should Do When Writing A Will (Which My Dad Didn't)

    While acting as executor for his father's estate, there have been four particular problems with Dan's dad's Will that have made the task monumentally more-challenging than it might have been. Here are four things that Dan's dad should have done to make Dan's job easier.

    Read more - about 7 minutes (1443 words)

    • Article
    • 7 comments
    • posted 31 August, 2012
  • I hold a bottle of Guinness in preparation of "breaking" it over the front of the bus.

    A Bus Called Peter

    Dan attends a ceremony to name a bus after his father, who died earlier this year, and surprises everybody present by pouring beer over the front of the new vehicle.

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    • 2 comments
    • posted 28 August, 2012

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