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Tag: friends

  • Circular sticker featuring nine New Zealand birds, stuck to a laptop under a sticker that says 'read gay; do crime'.

    A postcard from a distant friend

    I received another postcard-from-the-Internet... this one, with a chunky Kererลซ on it, from my antipodal real-life friend Ele!

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    • Article
    • posted 3 July, 2026
  • I want my friends to have blogs too

    Daniel loves blogs and loves blogging, but wishes that more of the people in his 'real life' blogged too. I get it, Daniel!

    Read more - about 3 minutes (479 words)

    • Repost
    • of this original
    • 4 comments
    • posted 9 June, 2026
  • Reply to: Who knows that you blog?

    David (of Forking Mad+) asked "who knows that you blog?". I join the increasing list of bloggers who've answered his question.

    Read more - about 4 minutes (809 words)

    • Reply
    • posted 4 May, 2026
  • Two modes of Internet use

    Tracy Durnell keeps her online- and offline- friends separate, and describes some solid reasons to do so. I appreciate her thoughts, even where I don't want to apply her conclusions to my own life.

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    • Repost
    • of this original
    • 2 comments
    • posted 11 November, 2025
  • Fellow Abnibbers and I, who see each other extraordinary infrequently in our diaspora, have a tradition of sharing a group selfie when we happen to coincide. I forgot to take one when @garethbowker@infosec.exchange and I met today, and by way of penance I tried to draw what I should have done.

    Full image of Badly drawn pen sketch of Dan, a man with a goatee, taking a selfie of himself and a round-cheeked man with a dog, while the pair drink hot drinks.
    Alt

    Badly drawn pen sketch of Dan, a man with a goatee, taking a selfie of himself and a round-cheeked man with a dog, while the pair drink hot drinks.

    Unfortunately I can't draw. He looks much less like a potato in real life! Think I got his dog right, though.

    • Note
    • posted 30 May, 2025
  • The final weekend of my sabbatical was spent, like the first one, at a Three Rings event. As a side activity to the volunteer work, everybody was asked to put their name on a paper plate and leave it on a particular table, allowing others to semi-anonymously add compliments, thanks, or kind words about its owner.

    Full image of Dan holding a plate containing his name and a collection of compliments, listed in the full post.
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    Dan holding a plate containing his name and a collection of compliments, listed in the full post.

    Comments on my plate:

    * Your my faveriot [sic] brother (gee, I wonder who THAT one was from ๐Ÿ˜‚)
    * Always seems to be doing interesting things. A maverick! Thinks outside the box
    * Awesome
    * Thank you for inventing this (a) system & (b) corporate model!
    * Always smiley and excited
    * Thanks for always pushing lots of new features!
    * Puts up with idiots willingly and patiently
    * You literally dreampt this whole thing into existence!
    * Quirky
    * Innovative solutions!
    * Helpful in all ways!

    Fabulous. I might wall-mount it.

    • Note
    • posted 19 January, 2025
  • Finger pressing a lift button.

    Stuck in a Lift

    About twenty years ago, I spent three hours playing I-Spy in a broken-down elevator. And in doing so, I learned two things about my friend Fiona.

    Read more - about 6 minutes (1364 words)

    • Article
    • with an accompanying podcast
    • 2 comments
    • posted 29 November, 2024
  • A white man wearing a spacesuit sits on a pebble beach using a laptop.

    They See Me (Blog)Rolling

    Inspired by Tracy Durnell, I've for the first time since 2008 started publishing a 'blogroll' of people I follow (now, dynamically-produced from my feed reader!).

    Read more - about 3 minutes (533 words)

    • Article
    • 2 comments
    • posted 18 December, 2023
  • Traditional inkwell and pen, the latter held in an inkstained finger grip, being used to write a letter on unbleached paper atop a wooden desk.

    Pen Pals Wanted

    Please will you be my pen pal for one month in 2024?

    Read more - about 4 minutes (781 words)

    • Article
    • 2 comments
    • posted 13 November, 2023
  • Rory's darkroom

    Darkroom Printing

    Rory tells the story of how he set up a darkroom in his (spare) windowless bathroom and shares his experience of becoming an increasingly analogue photographer in a digital world.

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    • Repost
    • posted 21 July, 2019
  • JTA and Annabel looking into a cabinet at the British Museum.

    Happy Metamour Appreciation Day, JTA

    JTA and Dan would be friends anyway, but having a partner-in-common has given them the opportunity to be closer still. Dan shares some of their history together.

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    • Article
    • posted 27 February, 2019
  • Gary, circa 1998

    The Story of Scgary

    In the early 2000s, as a volunteer trainer at Aberystwyth Nightline, I invented a roleplay scenario which drew upon anecdotes from my childhood and young adulthood... which eventually lead to a collision of worlds for Ruth and JTA when they, former volunteers, MET the person behind many of those anecdotes...

    Read more - about 8 minutes (1761 words)

    • Article
    • 5 comments
    • posted 30 October, 2018
  • Image representing post: Weird Music Only Paul Likes

    Weird Music Only Paul Likes

    Dan finally works out where Paul gets his weird music from.

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    • Article
    • 4 comments
    • posted 23 May, 2011
  • What I Learned About Democracy, Injury, Packing & Friendship

    Dan has a busy weekend of packing boxes, promoting better democracy, fretting about his dad, and socialising with a new-found friend. There was a royal wedding in there and a trip down the river to a pub, too, but those aren't mentioned in this blog post. Except right here.

    Read more - about 3 minutes (651 words)

    • Article
    • 2 comments
    • posted 3 May, 2011
  • My Friends Are Amazing

    I'd just like to take a moment to say how amazing my friends are. It's likely to be a little sappy: for those of you who like your blog posts on the other side of the wall, please switch off your eyes now.

    Earlier this month, I blogged about Claire and I's break-up. For many of โ€ฆ

    Read more (446 words)

    • Article
    • 7 comments
    • posted 26 November, 2009

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