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Tag: polyamory

  • Ruth, Dan, JTA and the kids at the top of the slides at a soft play area.

    Poly Parents Evening

    Ruth, JTA and Dan went to a school parents' evening as a trio. And everything was fine.

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    • posted 7 December, 2018
  • Image representing post: 'Boring and normal': the new frontier of polyamorous parenting

    'Boring and normal': the new frontier of polyamorous parenting

    by Zosia Bielski Sometimes Stephanie Weisner doesn’t know how two-parent families do it all, without a Mike in tow.

    Weisner, 38, has been in a polyamorous relationship with her husband, Ian Hubbard, and her work colleague, Mike Wissink, for eight years. The three adults all live together in one home in Moncton, alongside Weisner and Hubbard’s …

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    • 1 comment
    • posted 3 December, 2018
  • What Monogamous Couples Can Learn From Polyamorous Relationships, According to Experts

    Polyamory — having more than one consensual sexual or emotional relationship at once — has in recent years emerged on television, mainstream dating sites like OkCupid and even in research. And experts who have studied these kinds of consensual non-monogomous relationships, say they have unique strengths that anyone can learn from.

    Consensual non-monogamy can include polyamory, …

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    • posted 1 September, 2018
  • Why Are You Bothering?

    Why Are You Bothering? (The Polyamorous Misanthrope) A letter I got recently and a question I was asked in another forum really got me to thinking. The question was: How did you come to realize that poly-amorous relationships were right for you? Now … A letter I got recently and a question I was asked …

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    • posted 18 August, 2018
  • Extract of Three's Company by Natalie Dupille, as republished on Oh Joy Sex Toy

    Three's Company by Natalie Dupille

    Three's Company by Natalie Dupille (Oh Joy Sex Toy) Erika and I did a long weekend in the woods as part of a victory lap/recovery from the Kickstarter. SO GOOD, and SO NEEDED. It's with great thanks that I share this wonderful comic from Natalie on her non-monogamous life. I hope you all like this …

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    • posted 12 June, 2018
  • Infinity Heart Flag

    "Polyamory" became a top relationship search topic in 2017

    We seem to be finally, actually doing it: making the whole world aware of the polyamorous possibility. That's Elisabeth Sheff's term for discovering that happy, ethical multi-loving relationships are even possible, that people are successfully doing them right now, and that maybe you can too.

    Every December, Google announces the year's top trending search terms compared …

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    • posted 15 December, 2017
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    Working late.



    Channelate

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    • posted 6 December, 2017
  • Image representing post: The Most Skipped Step When Opening a Relationship

    The Most Skipped Step When Opening a Relationship


    You’ve had hundreds of hours of discussions on what your open relationship will look like? Check!
    You’ve written down a list of limits, boundaries, rules, and expectations? Check!
    You’ve created dating profiles that honestly detail what you are looking for and the honesty with your existing relationship? Check!
    You’ve read at …

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    • 1 comment
    • posted 12 July, 2017
  • We Need to be Better

    My post You Don’t Have to Do It has been getting an inordinate amount of attention in the last few months. As is often the case about anything in my life, I have mixed feelings about this. On the one hand, I really do think that polyamory isn’t for everyone, that while it’s a way…

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    • posted 4 June, 2016
  • JTA, Ruth and Dan at Ruth and JTA's wedding.

    Any love for unconventional couples? Here's me (right), my partner, and her husband on their wedding day, 4½ years ago.

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    • 9 comments
    • posted 26 March, 2015
  • How my poly family organises our finances (aka. means-assessed money management for multi-adult households). [x-post /r/polyamory]




    Hi /r/polyfamilies. After much pestering by people who know us, I finally got around to writing about how my polycule and I organise our finances, and I thought that you might be interested to. The whole thing's described behind that link, but I didn't want to be seen to be gathering karma or self-promoting, …

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    • posted 14 October, 2014
  • How my poly family organises our finances (aka. means-assessed money management for multi-adult households).




    Hi /r/polyamory. After much pestering by people who know us, I finally got around to writing about how my polycule and I organise our finances, and I thought that you might be interested to. The whole thing's described behind that link, but I didn't want to be seen to be gathering karma or self-promoting, …

    Read more - about 3 minutes (498 words)

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    • posted 14 October, 2014
  • Ruth and JTA with a huge amount of shopping.

    Means-Assessed Household Finances (Socialism Begins At Home!)

    For the last four years, Ruth, Dan, JTA, and those who've lived with them have used a system of means-assessment to fairly share the burden of their household finances. Now, Dan makes their model available to you to copy, use, and expand upon. Socialism begins at home.

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    • posted 12 October, 2014
  • "I have so much sex that I have to buy condoms in bulk and I STILL keep running out."

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    • posted 10 September, 2014
  • Hi /r/polyamory!

    How are you spending your Valentines' Day? With somebody special? With several special people? Boycotting the celebration entirely?

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    • posted 14 February, 2014

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