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Tag: polyamory

  • How does a polyamorous relationship between four people work? | BBC News


    Imagine one house, with four people, but five couples. How does it work, asks Jo Fidgen.
    Charlie is talking excitedly about a first date she went on the night before.

    Next to her on the sofa is her husband of six years, Tom. And on the other side of him is Sarah, who's been in …

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    • Repost
    • posted 19 August, 2013
  • Q from James Bond.

    Just One Q

    With the recent announcement that his friend Jimmy and his ex- Claire are engaged, Dan realises that he might somebody become the only person in the world with his surname.

    Read more - about 3 minutes (659 words)

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    • 5 comments
    • posted 28 June, 2013
  • My partner and her husband are on Orangered, but I'm on Periwinkle. How do I come out about this, to them?




    Also: what in the world is going on with Reddit today?


    Read more - about 1 minutes (11 words)

    • Repost
    • posted 2 April, 2013
  • Five

    Dan and Ruth celebrate five years together; Dan spots some curious numeric coincidences; and the pair of them think about throwing a party.

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    • posted 19 September, 2012
  • Ruth. I'm proud of her.

    Tonight a stand-up comedian asked my publicity-shy partner which of the men she was sitting with was her partner, and she said "Both." I am so proud.

    ...

    The second really did just walk into it when he asked Ruth β€œSo which of these two men are you with? Or is it both?” β€œYes, both,” she replied, and, in the period of silence while the comedian was still trying to comprehend what she’d said, added, β€œWe’re polyamorous.”

    I was so very proud of her in …

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    • posted 24 August, 2012
  • Ruth. I'm proud of her.

    Edinburgh 2012 - Day Six

    Another day at the Edinburgh Fringe: comedy, whisky, a museum... and telling a room full of strangers about your unusual relationship configuration. Twice.

    Read more - about 6 minutes (1417 words)

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    • 5 comments
    • posted 23 August, 2012
  • Image representing post: Poly In The Media

    Poly In The Media

    The day before Valentine's Day, Ruth, JTA and I gave an interview to a media and journalism student about the nature of our relationship. It went really well, and it pleased me a great deal to hear us all giving compatible answers to her questions, even on the few occasions when she asked us things that we haven't really talked about before.

    Read more - about 4 minutes (827 words)

    • Article
    • posted 13 March, 2012
  • Image representing post: Valentine's Day

    Valentine's Day

    How did you spend your Valentine's Day? Dan spent his with the people he loves the most, eating and drinking and being merry.

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    • 4 comments
    • posted 15 February, 2012
  • Poly and the Census - Success! (almost)

    After much to-ing and fro-ing, the Freedom of Information Act request that a fellow blogger made to the Office of National Statistics, on the subject of households with individuals in non-monogamous relationships or with non-binary genders, has begun to yield results. Dan comments on the findings.

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    • 2 comments
    • posted 28 October, 2011
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    PromisQity

    Dan discovers a vinyard whose name makes it sound like it was something he came up with.

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    • 3 comments
    • posted 11 September, 2011
  • Poly and the Census – Part Four

    More fun and games in Zoe's quest to get meaningful information out of the Office of National Statistics, about how census data reflects non-monogamous and non-heteronormative relationships.

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    • Article
    • posted 19 June, 2011
  • Poly and the Census - Part Three

    Dan hears back - albeit only via somebody else's Freedom of Information Act request - to his concerns about the possible treatment of polyamorous households by the Office of National Statistics during this year's census. And he's not happy.

    Read more - about 3 minutes (601 words)

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    • 10 comments
    • posted 13 May, 2011
  • Poly and the Census - Part Two

    Still no reply from the Office of National Statistics... but somebody's put in a Freedom of Information request now asking a very similar question.

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    • 1 comment
    • posted 28 March, 2011
  • Image representing post: A Punting Story

    A Punting Story

    Dan, Ruth and JTA borrow a punt and go for a picnic. It turns out that driving a punt is a lot harder than it looks. Especially when you're drunk.

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    • 3 comments
    • posted 21 March, 2011
  • Image representing post: Poly and the Census

    Poly and the Census

    Dan engages in a little polyamory activism, writing to the Office of National Statistics to ask for their assurances that the data submitted on the census he shares with the other Earthlings will be correctly recorded and that the fact that his partner has ticked both the "partner" and "husband or wife" boxes (for different people) will not be treated as a mistake. I wonder what they'll have to say about that...

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    • posted 13 March, 2011

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