Posts tagged with ‘polyamory’

  • JTA and Ruth at the supermarket after shoping before Murder... At The Magic College

    Means-Assessed Household Finances (Socialism Begins At Home!)

    12 October, 2014

    For the last four years, Ruth, Dan, JTA, and those who've lived with them have used a system of...

  • Q from James Bond.

    Just One Q

    28 June, 2013

    With the recent announcement that his friend Jimmy and his ex- Claire are engaged, Dan realises that he might...

  • Five

    19 September, 2012

    Dan and Ruth celebrate five years together; Dan spots some curious numeric coincidences; and the pair of them think...

  • Ruth. I'm proud of her.

    Edinburgh 2012 – Day Six

    23 August, 2012

    Another day at the Edinburgh Fringe: comedy, whisky, a museum... and telling a room full of strangers about your...

  • Poly In The Media

    13 March, 2012

    The day before Valentine's Day, Ruth, JTA and I gave an interview to a media and journalism student about...

  • Valentine’s Day

    15 February, 2012

    How did you spend your Valentine's Day? Dan spent his with the people he loves the most, eating and...

  • Poly and the Census – Success! (almost)

    28 October, 2011

    After much to-ing and fro-ing, the Freedom of Information Act request that a fellow blogger made to the Office...

  • PromisQity

    11 September, 2011

    Dan discovers a vinyard whose name makes it sound like it was something he came up with.

  • Poly and the Census – Part Four

    19 June, 2011

    More fun and games in Zoe's quest to get meaningful information out of the Office of National Statistics, about...

  • Poly and the Census – Part Three

    13 May, 2011

    Dan hears back - albeit only via somebody else's Freedom of Information Act request - to his concerns about...

  • Poly and the Census – Part Two

    28 March, 2011

    Still no reply from the Office of National Statistics... but somebody's put in a Freedom of Information request now...

  • Poly and the Census

    13 March, 2011

    Dan engages in a little polyamory activism, writing to the Office of National Statistics to ask for their assurances...

  • Polyamory as an Identity

    23 February, 2011

    Many people in polyamorous relationships identify as "being" polyamorous, but Dan doesn't. In this blog post, he tries to...

  • Ask for What You Want

    19 January, 2011

    There's a psychological concept called the anchoring effect. If you apply it to successful polyamorous relationship strategies, you get...

  • Busy Weekends Part II

    21 July, 2010

    Following up on my post about the weekend before the weekend before last – here’s what I got up...

  • The 17 Blog Posts That Weren’t

    3 April, 2010

    It may come as a surprise to you that the stuff I write about on my blog – whether...

  • BiCon 2009

    24 August, 2009

    This weekend, I was at BiCon 2009 (my third BiCon – I guess that makes it a tradition), and...

  • Claire Goes To Pisa

    18 June, 2009

    So, last weekend Claire moved out of The Cottage and into her new flat, the top floor of a...

  • Satisfied

    15 May, 2009

    I saw XKCD #584 – “Unsatisfied” – this morning. In the comic (in a slightly Sliding Doors way), a...

  • Kissing At Midnight

    18 December, 2008

    In a fleeting thought, as I passed the greengrocer hanging our mistletoe outside his shop this morning, I found...

  • How to be Mono-Friendly

    13 October, 2008

    Freaksexual just wrote a fantastic blog post (as usual) instructing monogamous people “How to be Poly-Friendly“. It’s an excellent...

  • BiCon Fun And Games

    30 August, 2008

    It’s been hard to find time to post a blog entry here, with everything that’s been going on. Here’s...

  • Year One – A Happy Post That Everybody Will Misunderstand To Be An Unhappy One

    26 August, 2008

    Ruth and I celebrated the first anniversary of our being a couple, this weekend. She came down to Aber...

  • Reasons To Tick The “It’s Complicated” Box

    29 May, 2008

    Assuming you’re reading Abnib in chronological order, you’re already aware that Claire and JTA split up a little while...

  • Valentine’s Day

    15 February, 2008

    None of the four of us (JTA, Ruth, Claire and I) had planned to make anything special out of...

  • Reactions To The Unholy Alliance

    28 November, 2007

    Here’s a blog post I’ve been meaning to write for several months now: it’s about some of the varied...

  • Quickly, Before They Turn The Glass Into Lesbians!

    5 November, 2007

    So, what have I been up to this weekend, you ask. Well… “Cover The Mirrors” Launch Party On Friday...

  • The Purple Rose

    29 August, 2007

    I received a surprising gift at work this morning. Click the picture for a full-size snap. A gift box...

  • How Not To Watch Comedy

    24 August, 2007

    We failed quite miserably to see any live comedy yesterday (although the day before was good). I blame the...

  • Open Fidelity

    5 June, 2007

    The other book I got in my recent order from Amazon was Open Fidelity: An A-Z Guide, by Anna...