Means-Assessed Household Finances (Socialism Begins At Home!)
12 October, 2014For the last four years, Ruth, Dan, JTA, and those who've lived with them have used a system of...
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Just One Q
28 June, 2013With the recent announcement that his friend Jimmy and his ex- Claire are engaged, Dan realises that he might...
Five
19 September, 2012Dan and Ruth celebrate five years together; Dan spots some curious numeric coincidences; and the pair of them think...
Edinburgh 2012 – Day Six
23 August, 2012Another day at the Edinburgh Fringe: comedy, whisky, a museum... and telling a room full of strangers about your...
Poly In The Media
13 March, 2012The day before Valentine's Day, Ruth, JTA and I gave an interview to a media and journalism student about...
Valentine’s Day
15 February, 2012How did you spend your Valentine's Day? Dan spent his with the people he loves the most, eating and...
Poly and the Census – Success! (almost)
28 October, 2011After much to-ing and fro-ing, the Freedom of Information Act request that a fellow blogger made to the Office...
PromisQity
11 September, 2011Dan discovers a vinyard whose name makes it sound like it was something he came up with.
Poly and the Census – Part Four
19 June, 2011More fun and games in Zoe's quest to get meaningful information out of the Office of National Statistics, about...
Poly and the Census – Part Three
13 May, 2011Dan hears back - albeit only via somebody else's Freedom of Information Act request - to his concerns about...
Poly and the Census – Part Two
28 March, 2011Still no reply from the Office of National Statistics... but somebody's put in a Freedom of Information request now...
Poly and the Census
13 March, 2011Dan engages in a little polyamory activism, writing to the Office of National Statistics to ask for their assurances...
Polyamory as an Identity
23 February, 2011Many people in polyamorous relationships identify as "being" polyamorous, but Dan doesn't. In this blog post, he tries to...
Ask for What You Want
19 January, 2011There's a psychological concept called the anchoring effect. If you apply it to successful polyamorous relationship strategies, you get...
Busy Weekends Part II
21 July, 2010Following up on my post about the weekend before the weekend before last – here’s what I got up...
The 17 Blog Posts That Weren’t
3 April, 2010It may come as a surprise to you that the stuff I write about on my blog – whether...
BiCon 2009
24 August, 2009This weekend, I was at BiCon 2009 (my third BiCon – I guess that makes it a tradition), and...
Claire Goes To Pisa
18 June, 2009So, last weekend Claire moved out of The Cottage and into her new flat, the top floor of a...
Satisfied
15 May, 2009I saw XKCD #584 – “Unsatisfied” – this morning. In the comic (in a slightly Sliding Doors way), a...
Kissing At Midnight
18 December, 2008In a fleeting thought, as I passed the greengrocer hanging our mistletoe outside his shop this morning, I found...
How to be Mono-Friendly
13 October, 2008Freaksexual just wrote a fantastic blog post (as usual) instructing monogamous people “How to be Poly-Friendly“. It’s an excellent...
BiCon Fun And Games
30 August, 2008It’s been hard to find time to post a blog entry here, with everything that’s been going on. Here’s...
Year One – A Happy Post That Everybody Will Misunderstand To Be An Unhappy One
26 August, 2008Ruth and I celebrated the first anniversary of our being a couple, this weekend. She came down to Aber...
Reasons To Tick The “It’s Complicated” Box
29 May, 2008Assuming you’re reading Abnib in chronological order, you’re already aware that Claire and JTA split up a little while...
Valentine’s Day
15 February, 2008None of the four of us (JTA, Ruth, Claire and I) had planned to make anything special out of...
Reactions To The Unholy Alliance
28 November, 2007Here’s a blog post I’ve been meaning to write for several months now: it’s about some of the varied...
Quickly, Before They Turn The Glass Into Lesbians!
5 November, 2007So, what have I been up to this weekend, you ask. Well… “Cover The Mirrors” Launch Party On Friday...
The Purple Rose
29 August, 2007I received a surprising gift at work this morning. Click the picture for a full-size snap. A gift box...
How Not To Watch Comedy
24 August, 2007We failed quite miserably to see any live comedy yesterday (although the day before was good). I blame the...
Open Fidelity
5 June, 2007The other book I got in my recent order from Amazon was Open Fidelity: An A-Z Guide, by Anna...
