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Means-Assessed Household Finances (Socialism Begins At Home!)
12 October, 2014For the last four years, Ruth, Dan, JTA, and those who've lived with them have used a system of...
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Just One Q
28 June, 2013With the recent announcement that his friend Jimmy and his ex- Claire are engaged, Dan realises that he might...
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Five
19 September, 2012Dan and Ruth celebrate five years together; Dan spots some curious numeric coincidences; and the pair of them think...
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Edinburgh 2012 – Day Six
23 August, 2012Another day at the Edinburgh Fringe: comedy, whisky, a museum... and telling a room full of strangers about your...
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Poly In The Media
13 March, 2012The day before Valentine's Day, Ruth, JTA and I gave an interview to a media and journalism student about...
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Valentine’s Day
15 February, 2012How did you spend your Valentine's Day? Dan spent his with the people he loves the most, eating and...
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Poly and the Census – Success! (almost)
28 October, 2011After much to-ing and fro-ing, the Freedom of Information Act request that a fellow blogger made to the Office...
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PromisQity
11 September, 2011Dan discovers a vinyard whose name makes it sound like it was something he came up with.
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Poly and the Census – Part Four
19 June, 2011More fun and games in Zoe's quest to get meaningful information out of the Office of National Statistics, about...
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Poly and the Census – Part Three
13 May, 2011Dan hears back - albeit only via somebody else's Freedom of Information Act request - to his concerns about...
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Poly and the Census – Part Two
28 March, 2011Still no reply from the Office of National Statistics... but somebody's put in a Freedom of Information request now...
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Poly and the Census
13 March, 2011Dan engages in a little polyamory activism, writing to the Office of National Statistics to ask for their assurances...
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Polyamory as an Identity
23 February, 2011Many people in polyamorous relationships identify as "being" polyamorous, but Dan doesn't. In this blog post, he tries to...
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Ask for What You Want
19 January, 2011There's a psychological concept called the anchoring effect. If you apply it to successful polyamorous relationship strategies, you get...
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Busy Weekends Part II
21 July, 2010Following up on my post about the weekend before the weekend before last – here’s what I got up...
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The 17 Blog Posts That Weren’t
3 April, 2010It may come as a surprise to you that the stuff I write about on my blog – whether...
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BiCon 2009
24 August, 2009This weekend, I was at BiCon 2009 (my third BiCon – I guess that makes it a tradition), and...
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Claire Goes To Pisa
18 June, 2009So, last weekend Claire moved out of The Cottage and into her new flat, the top floor of a...
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Satisfied
15 May, 2009I saw XKCD #584 – “Unsatisfied” – this morning. In the comic (in a slightly Sliding Doors way), a...
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Kissing At Midnight
18 December, 2008In a fleeting thought, as I passed the greengrocer hanging our mistletoe outside his shop this morning, I found...
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How to be Mono-Friendly
13 October, 2008Freaksexual just wrote a fantastic blog post (as usual) instructing monogamous people “How to be Poly-Friendly“. It’s an excellent...
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BiCon Fun And Games
30 August, 2008It’s been hard to find time to post a blog entry here, with everything that’s been going on. Here’s...
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Year One – A Happy Post That Everybody Will Misunderstand To Be An Unhappy One
26 August, 2008Ruth and I celebrated the first anniversary of our being a couple, this weekend. She came down to Aber...
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Reasons To Tick The “It’s Complicated” Box
29 May, 2008Assuming you’re reading Abnib in chronological order, you’re already aware that Claire and JTA split up a little while...
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Valentine’s Day
15 February, 2008None of the four of us (JTA, Ruth, Claire and I) had planned to make anything special out of...
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Reactions To The Unholy Alliance
28 November, 2007Here’s a blog post I’ve been meaning to write for several months now: it’s about some of the varied...
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Quickly, Before They Turn The Glass Into Lesbians!
5 November, 2007So, what have I been up to this weekend, you ask. Well… “Cover The Mirrors” Launch Party On Friday...
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The Purple Rose
29 August, 2007I received a surprising gift at work this morning. Click the picture for a full-size snap. A gift box...
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How Not To Watch Comedy
24 August, 2007We failed quite miserably to see any live comedy yesterday (although the day before was good). I blame the...
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Open Fidelity
5 June, 2007The other book I got in my recent order from Amazon was Open Fidelity: An A-Z Guide, by Anna...
