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Tag: family

  • A red and orange sunset with beams reaching up over the hilly horizon of climatically- Mediterranean farmlands.

    Casa Ventola

    I'm spending the week on the East coast of Spain, hoping to see the imminent solar eclipse. And in the meantime, I've been finding local geocaches (including my thousandth!) and exploring the local sights with my family.

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    • posted 12 August, 2026
  • A family of two white men with beards and one white woman sit at a picnic bench in a barn, alongside their two (blurred) children. They're holding baps with sausages, bacon, or eggs in, and surrounded by canned drinks and takeaway coffee cups. A tote bag nearby gives away that they're at the cafe of Diddly Squat Farm.

    My Polyamory is Boring

    A conversation with another openly-polyamorous blogger led us to ask one another why we don't write about our relationship structure more-often. In my case, the answer is simple: my relationships are boring, and that's a good thing! But here's your chance to tell me I'm wrong...

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    • posted 12 June, 2026
  • Did not find GC4M7C4 Scouting About

    The elder geokid and I had a search in all the likely spots we could find after attending her cousin's 2nd birthday party nearby. No luck for us today!

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    • to GC4M7C4
    • posted 3 April, 2026
  • Watercolour painting of a giraffe's face, wearing glasses.

    Cold Giraffe

    My mum painted a cold giraffe onto a postcard and sent it to me.

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    • posted 9 March, 2026
  • Back at the Rollright Stones fire New Year's Day, per family tradition. This year the younger child counted 74, the elder 59. The curse that prevents you counting the same number twice continues!

    Full image of A man with blue hair points at some standing stones.
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    A man with blue hair points at some standing stones.

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    • posted 1 January, 2026
  • Happy Polyamory Day y'all. (Plus max props to Petra without whom I'd have forgotten about it, like most years.)

    Closest thing I did to celebrating it was going out to the pub last night for beer and food with my metamour, while our partner-in-common took our kids to see a film. Polyfam life isn't always glamorous; but it is full of love.

    • Note
    • posted 23 November, 2025
  • In preparation for Family D&D Night (and with thanks to my earlier guide to splicing maps together!), I've finally completed an expanded "overworld" map for our game world. So far, the kids have mostly hung around on the North coast of the Central Sea, but they're picked up a hook that may take them all the way across to the other side... and beyond?

    Banana for scale.

    (If your GMing for kids, you probably already know this, but "feelies" go a long way. All the maps. All the scrolls. Maybe even some props. Go all in. They love it.)

    Full image of On a dining table lies a old-style map comprised of 12 sheets of A4 paper, sellotaped together. The map shows the 'Central Sea', an inlet from the 'Terminic Ocean', around which various settlements, forests, mountain ranges, and swamps can be found. An underripe banana sits in one corner of the map, weighing it down.
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    On a dining table lies a old-style map comprised of 12 sheets of A4 paper, sellotaped together. The map shows the 'Central Sea', an inlet from the 'Terminic Ocean', around which various settlements, forests, mountain ranges, and swamps can be found. An underripe banana sits in one corner of the map, weighing it down.

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    • posted 18 April, 2025
  • Our family tradition on New Year's Day is to go to the Rollright Stones. Legend has it that you can't count the standing stones and get the same answer twice.

    This year the younger child counted 37, the elder 67... so wide a difference that you can see how one might ascribe a mystical reason!

    Full image of A stone circle in the rain. Some people (and a dog) are walking around it.
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    A stone circle in the rain. Some people (and a dog) are walking around it.

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    • posted 1 January, 2025
  • Image representing post: Found GC34G3G Coventry - Hertford Street

    Found GC34G3G Coventry - Hertford Street

    This checkin to GC34G3G Coventry - Hertford Street reflects a geocaching.com log entry. See more of Dan's cache logs. The rest of the family and I are visiting for my youngest's birthday to do a handful of fun activities. Geocaching didn't make the list, but that wasn't gonna stop me finding this QEF while putting โ€ฆ

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    • posted 17 November, 2024
  • Made it through a day and a half of theme park fun with the kids. Time for a much-needed beer, then as long a sleep as circumstance will allow.

    Full image of Three glasses of beer held by adult hands clink together against a glass of water and a bottle of Fanta held 6 by cold hands.
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    Three glasses of beer held by adult hands clink together against a glass of water and a bottle of Fanta held 6 by cold hands.

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    • posted 30 October, 2024
  • Enjoying a glass of cava while the kids peer down out of the window of a Barcelona skyscraper.

    Full image of Half-full champagne flute on a table. In the background, two children look out of a floor-to-ceiling window.
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    Half-full champagne flute on a table. In the background, two children look out of a floor-to-ceiling window.

    Day 8 of my sabbatical. Think I'm doing this right?

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    • posted 26 October, 2024
  • Off to Spain! BRB.

    Full image of Dan, Ruth, and their children on an airport car park shuttle bus.
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    Dan, Ruth, and their children on an airport car park shuttle bus.

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    • posted 26 October, 2024
  • In Community Season 4, Episode 8 (Herstory of Dance), Pierce Hawthorne (Chevy Chase), wearing an Inspector Spacetime t-shirt, sits in a computer lab.

    Shared Email Addresses

    I've long mocked people who've opted to use email addresses that they share with their partner, or email addresses that are tied to their geographic location... but it turns out that I've been doing the same thing for years, albeit only with aliases.

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    • posted 29 July, 2024
  • Dan stands alongside a door, his hand on top of a plane, itself on top of the door.

    Framing Device

    This weekend I repaired an ill-fitting door, which I learned to do by watching my grandfather, over thirty years ago.

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    • posted 1 June, 2024
  • Posed sepia photograph of Dan, JTA, Ruth, and their children and dog, dressed in Victorian-era clothing, by a Christmas tree.

    [Bloganuary] Traditions

    By virtue, perhaps, of being a three-parent family, we draw family traditions from a wider array of sources than many. And then we supplement those with even more that we've adopted from elsewhere or invented for ourselves. Want to hear about some of them?

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    • posted 26 January, 2024

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