That Discomfort You're Feeling Is Grief

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There is something powerful about naming this as grief. It helps us feel whatโ€™s inside of us. So many have told me in the past week, โ€œIโ€™m telling my coworkers Iโ€™m having a hard time,โ€ or โ€œI cried last night.โ€ When you name it, you feel it and it moves through you. Emotions need motion. Itโ€™s important we acknowledge what we go through.

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Scott makes a good point; the experience of the coronavirus crisis and lockdowns is distinctly grief-like. Insofar as the Kรผbler-Ross model is applicable in general, it's a good predictor of individuals' reactions to their temporary "new normal". But the lesson to take from this article, I think, isn't about understanding the feelings and behaviour of your fellow humans but, as the author says, in giving a name to your own.

The realisation that what you're experiencing is grief and that it's okay to need an indefinite amount of time to process that is empowering and reassuring.

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