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Tag: sex

  • Two crumpled pillows at the head of a double bed.

    Boring Polyamory: Equality and Bedrooms

    The other month, I described my polyamory as 'boring', which attracted lots of interesting questions and feedback. Let's address the first one - why does my partner not have a bedroom of 'her own', even though both of her partners get one?

    Read more - about 6 minutes (1312 words)

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    • 5 comments
    • posted 25 August, 2026
  • A family of two white men with beards and one white woman sit at a picnic bench in a barn, alongside their two (blurred) children. They're holding baps with sausages, bacon, or eggs in, and surrounded by canned drinks and takeaway coffee cups. A tote bag nearby gives away that they're at the cafe of Diddly Squat Farm.

    My Polyamory is Boring

    A conversation with another openly-polyamorous blogger led us to ask one another why we don't write about our relationship structure more-often. In my case, the answer is simple: my relationships are boring, and that's a good thing! But here's your chance to tell me I'm wrong...

    Read more - about 6 minutes (1389 words)

    • Article
    • 12 comments
    • posted 12 June, 2026
  • claude, make it make sense *harder*

    blackle mori delivers a welll-rounded, one might say voluptuous, take on the writing process, glistening with the fiery passion of its author. I desperately want to get off... how fun this post was.

    Read more (351 words)

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    • 1 comment
    • posted 22 February, 2026
  • I don't want to withdraw any of our children from sec [sic] education lessons.

    Full image of Part of an email, written in Comic Sans, reading: Ages 10 โ€“ 11 Puberty for boys and girls revisited. Understanding conception to the birth of a baby. Becoming a teenager. All lessons are taught using correct terminology, child-friendly language and diagrams. / Content on relationships is compulsory for all children as well as work on reproduction and body parts, which is also covered as part of science lessons. However, parents can decide to withdraw their child from sex education lessons. Class teachers can provide more information if you wish to discuss this with your childโ€™s teacher. / If you would like to withdraw your child from sec education lessons, then please put this in writing by the end of this week 6th June.
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    Part of an email, written in Comic Sans, reading: Ages 10 โ€“ 11 Puberty for boys and girls revisited. Understanding conception to the birth of a baby. Becoming a teenager. All lessons are taught using correct terminology, child-friendly language and diagrams. / Content on relationships is compulsory for all children as well as work on reproduction and body parts, which is also covered as part of science lessons. However, parents can decide to withdraw their child from sex education lessons. Class teachers can provide more information if you wish to discuss this with your childโ€™s teacher. / If you would like to withdraw your child from sec education lessons, then please put this in writing by the end of this week 6th June.

    However they're spelled, they're a great idea, and I'm grateful to live in a part of the world where their existence isn't the target of religious politics.

    But if I can withdraw consent to receiving emails about sex education in Comic Sans then that'd be great, thanks. ๐Ÿ˜…

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    • 1 comment
    • posted 2 June, 2025
  • "Hello, humans!" Xb'rax greets us cheerfully against a background of writhing eyes, tentacles, and fang-y mouths. "Do you like sex? I'm Xb/rax with the Abyssal Plane Tourism Board, and I'm here to ask why not try...". Tile written in oozing pink cursive letters: Sex With Monsters?

    Sex With Monsters

    Just in time for Halloween, this comic (published via the ever-excellent Oh Joy Sex Toy) is fundamentally pretty silly... and yet still manages to touch upon important concepts of safer sex, consent, aftercare etc.

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    • posted 30 October, 2024
  • Image representing post: Polyam Lingo

    Polyam Lingo

    Dr. Doe vlogged about polyamorous terminology and Dan learned a thing or two.

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    • posted 5 March, 2021
  • A woman lies on a bed with her legs crossed, playfully wagging her finger. The mouse cursor is shaped like a feather.

    Axe Feather 2021

    Dan recreates a 16-year old Flash-based interactive ad using modern web technologies.

    Read more - about 9 minutes (2102 words)

    • Article
    • 8 comments
    • posted 2 February, 2021
  • A shooting target with a great many holes.

    New Blood Donation Rules Better, I Suppose

    The rules for NHS blood donation have changed to be more-inclusive, especially of men who have sex with men. But the collateral damage is that Dan's partner now CAN'T give blood!

    Read more - about 3 minutes (541 words)

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    • 15 comments
    • posted 14 December, 2020
  • Image representing post: Why children stay silent following sexual violence

    Why children stay silent following sexual violence

    As a survivor of sexual assault and as a parent, Kristin Jones shares her thoughts on why child victims don't speak up. Dan summarises her thoughts within the framework of his own generation and culture.

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    • 1 comment
    • posted 27 November, 2020
  • Lucky Devil Eats

    Lucky Devil Eats

    Strip clubs in the US can't run during the lockdown, and aren't eligible for financial support. But one strip club found a clever workaround.

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    • posted 18 May, 2020
  • Vintage vibrators

    Review: Vintage Vibrators

    Epiphora reviews vintage vibrators that are old enough to have belonged to her great grandmother. Hilarity ensues.

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    • posted 16 November, 2019
  • Perfect By K Lynn Smith

    Perfect By K Lynn Smith







    Oh Joy Sex Toy / K Lynn Smith
    Now that's a hot comic. NSFW, so don't click through if you're not in a place where you can do so!

    Also, RIP Flapjack. ๐Ÿ˜ข

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    • 1 comment
    • posted 2 November, 2019
  • Image representing post: Episode 25: ON CONSENT AND CUDDLING with my daughter Des

    Episode 25: ON CONSENT AND CUDDLING with my daughter Des

    Episode 25 of the Sexplanations Podcast features Dr. Doe's daughter Des, and it's adorable.

    Read more (118 words)

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    • posted 9 May, 2019
  • Image representing post: Guess that sex act #CONTENT

    Guess that sex act #CONTENT

    Dr Doe and TomSka do a video collaboration and look at slang and terms for sex, and it's awesome.

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    • Repost
    • posted 27 April, 2019
  • Frame from Tailsteak's 20-page comic "Escape Room"

    Escape Room [NSFW]

    If you've always wanted a comic combining B/D, gay sex, and escape room puzzles, by an awesome artist, you're in luck...

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    • 1 comment
    • posted 25 April, 2019

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