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  • I decided to take my meeting with my coach today in our house's new library, which my metamour JTA has recently been working hard on decorating, constructing, and filling with books. The room's not quite finished, but it made for a brilliant space for a bit of quiet reflection and self-growth work.

    Full image of Dan, a white man with a ponytail, wearing a black shirt and jeans, sits in a rocking chair in front of an open laptop at a long desk; he has a notebook in his hand and holds a pen near his lips. He's in a domestic library with deep red walls, balanced-arm lamps, a woven rug on a wooden floor, and the wall behind him entirely covered with floor-to-ceiling bookshelves. A grassy lawn and sapling trees can be seen through a window, bordered by floral curtains and two clumsily-placed WiFi routers that sit on the window ledge. On the corner of the desk lie various hand tools, suggesting that light construction work has recently taken place.
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    Dan, a white man with a ponytail, wearing a black shirt and jeans, sits in a rocking chair in front of an open laptop at a long desk; he has a notebook in his hand and holds a pen near his lips. He's in a domestic library with deep red walls, balanced-arm lamps, a woven rug on a wooden floor, and the wall behind him entirely covered with floor-to-ceiling bookshelves. A grassy lawn and sapling trees can be seen through a window, bordered by floral curtains and two clumsily-placed WiFi routers that sit on the window ledge. On the corner of the desk lie various hand tools, suggesting that light construction work has recently taken place.

    (Incidentally: I might be treating "lives in a house with a library" as a measure of personal success. Like: this is what winning at life looks like, right? Because whatever else goes wrong, at least you can go hide in the library!)

    • Note
    • posted 12 March, 2025
  • I've been trying to comment more on other people's blogs. It's tough, because comment forms continue to wane in popularity, and it's not always clear who'll accept Webmentions, but there's often the option of a good old-fashioned email or a fediverse ping.

    It occurred to me that I follow a significant number of personal blogs, and my privacy systems mean I'm a bit of a ghost to most analytics systems they might use, so the only way they'd ever know I was there would be if I said so.

    Plus, the Internet is better when it's social. There are some great people out there, and I'm enjoying meeting them!

    (You're welcome to throw comments, Webmentions, or emails my way, of course, too!)

    • Note
    • 4 comments
    • posted 11 March, 2025
  • Dan, sitting in an office, staring at his phone... as if he were on his phone.

    It is as if you were on your phone

    When you use your phone to play this game, it really does look indistinguishable from being on your phone. Weird!

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    • of this original
    • posted 10 March, 2025
  • This year it'll be 10 years since webcomic A Softer World ended its 12-year run. If you missed it, you can still go back and read them all, starting from asofterworld.com/index.php?id=1

    But in the meantime, here's one of my very favourites:

    A Softer World comic #937. Three frames: the first shows a close-up of the chest and arm of a woman wearing a black sleeveless top; the second and third show the same woman spanning both frames. Across the three frames are typewriter-styled captions, reading: 'Sex is better if you're feeling', 'horny and silly in equal measure.', and 'Most things are!'

    • Note
    • posted 9 March, 2025
  • Did not attempt GC3KQKM RRR12 2nd tree downstream

    This checkin to GC3KQKM RRR12 2nd tree downstream reflects a geocaching.com log entry. See more of Dan's cache logs. Did not attempt to find, today: an angler was sitting almost right at the GZ, enjoying the peace and quiet that my geokid would have quickly disrupted! So we moved on...

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    • to GC3KQKM
    • posted 9 March, 2025
  • Did not find GC4B6QJ RRR 13 Not that Alder - incy wincy!

    This checkin to GC4B6QJ RRR 13 Not that Alder - incy wincy! reflects a geocaching.com log entry. See more of Dan's cache logs. No luck here for the geokid and I. He speculates that perhaps "down came the rain and washed the container out."

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    • to GC4B6QJ
    • posted 9 March, 2025
  • Found GC4B6QP RRR 14 Put that Rod Away!

    This checkin to GC4B6QP RRR 14 Put that Rod Away! reflects a geocaching.com log entry. See more of Dan's cache logs. A quick and easy find in a brilliant hiding spot. I was helped by the geokid with the reaching. Lovely spot for a great hide, FP awarded!
    AltDan lifts a child up to โ€ฆ

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    • Checkin
    • to GC4B6QP
    • posted 9 March, 2025
  • Found GC3KQK8 RRR11 Pillow talk!

    This checkin to GC3KQK8 RRR11 Pillow talk! reflects a geocaching.com log entry. See more of Dan's cache logs. My partner Ruth is, by installments, attempting to walk the entire Thames Path. Today, I'm on transport support so I've driven ahead of her to Culham Lock and the dog and I are walking back to meet โ€ฆ

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    • to GC3KQK8
    • posted 9 March, 2025
  • I've been playing Sean O'Connor's Slay for around 30 years (!), but somehow it took until today, on the Android version, before I tried my hand at "rewilding" the game world.

    Full image of Hex-based videogame board, entirely owned by the yellow player, but with only a single solitary soldier standing alone. The rest of the island is heavily forested in pine and, along one coast, palm trees, with the exception of the far North beyond a line of castles.
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    Hex-based videogame board, entirely owned by the yellow player, but with only a single solitary soldier standing alone. The rest of the island is heavily forested in pine and, along one coast, palm trees, with the exception of the far North beyond a line of castles.

    The rules of the game make trees... a bad thing: you earn no income from hexes with them. But by the time I was winning this map anyway, I figured that encouraging growback would be a pleasant way to finish the round.

    Play your videogames any damn way you want. Don't let anybody tell you there's a right or wrong way to enjoy a single-player game. Today I took a strategy wargame and grew a forest. How will you play?

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    • 2 comments
    • posted 8 March, 2025
  • Somebody's doing a kickass job with these adverts on the Tube.

    Full image of Photo of a parody advertisement on a London Underground train, showing Elon Musk doing a Nazi salute. The fake ad is for 'Elon's Musk', 'parfum de 1939'.
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    Photo of a parody advertisement on a London Underground train, showing Elon Musk doing a Nazi salute. The fake ad is for 'Elon's Musk', 'parfum de 1939'.

    Found via https://bsky.app/profile/strictlychristo.bsky.social/post/3ljobtnidrk2s; there are other examples in that thread.

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    • 1 comment
    • posted 8 March, 2025
  • My love of the yesterweb forced me to teach myself just-enough Blender to make an animation for a stupid thing: an 88x31 button representing "me" (and, I suppose, my blog, whenever I next end up redesigning its theme).

    Full image of 88x31 animated GIF button in the Web 1.0 style, reading "DAN Q". The letter Q is spinning.
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    88x31 animated GIF button in the Web 1.0 style, reading "DAN Q". The letter Q is spinning.

    Full image of The same image, but expanded so it's larger.
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    The same image, but expanded so it's larger.

    • Note
    • posted 7 March, 2025
  • How do birds hear the calls of species of bird other than their own? Is it like background noise that they can talk (sing) over, filtering out everything but the calls of their own kind, like how you can talk over the murmur of a cocktail party until the second somebody says your name? Or is it more like something they consciously observe and work around, like waiting for your turn to speak in a group conversation flitting between several different topics?

    Full image of Early springtime view of bare trees over green-brown fields under a sky dappled with clouds.
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    Early springtime view of bare trees over green-brown fields under a sky dappled with clouds.

    Either way: is such communication strategy an instinctive or a learned behaviour? It seems likely that at least part of birdsong communication is gained after hatching because birds from noisy cities are louder than their country cousins (although you wouldn't know it, to listen out of the bedroom window of my rural home, this morning!).

    Just a moment's curiosity for the morning.

    • Note
    • 1 comment
    • posted 7 March, 2025
  • Book cover of A Prayer for the Crown-Shy, by Becky Chambers. A traditional wooden caravan, pulled by a bicycle being ridden by a person in yellow clothes, weaves its way through rolling meadows and forests towards a city of glimmering towers and orbs.

    A Prayer for the Crown-Shy by Becky Chambers

    Right after I finished A Psalm for the Wild-Built, I began reading its sequel A Prayer for the Crown-Shy and... it's also wonderful. It takes a different-but-similar approach to the philosophy of identity and purpose, and the story provides a deeper look into Dex's world, but it's still a familiar-feeling continuation of a beautiful story that's comforting and sweet.

    Read more - about 4 minutes (850 words)

    • Article
    • posted 6 March, 2025
  • Breakfast today will make use of leftovers to produce a bean chilli pizza. This'll work, right?

    Full image of Pizza built with bean chilli and mixed grated cheese, ready to go into an oven.
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    Pizza built with bean chilli and mixed grated cheese, ready to go into an oven.

    Update: yeah. This works.๐Ÿ˜‹

    Full image of Finished pizza, looking delicious.
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    Finished pizza, looking delicious.

    • Note
    • posted 2 March, 2025
  • What's the equivalent phrase to "hair of the dog", but for caffeine?

    I've always been pretty sensitive to it, and while I'm less-so now, it was still definitely a mistake to eat several portions of tiramisu right before bedtime.

    So now I'm going to need more caffeine, this morning, to compensate for the lack of sleep.

    What do we call that?

    • Note
    • posted 28 February, 2025

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