Thank you for the answer. Its interesting . I have only heard of these kind of unions but with the male being the ones that has various wives and never the other way around. How is your relationship with the husband? and i dont mean it in any sexual way just like if you 2 are buddies and go out for a beer ? Have you guys ever been mad at her at the same time? What about the baby, do you babysit for them so they can go out ? are you involved in raising the child at all or are you just an observer?