I don’t blame you at all. I said we’d miscommunicated. I’ve also tried to express how little I want to try to persuade you to my point of view! A radfem ally trying to convince a non-radfem woman to be more radfem is a ridiculous situation! :D

But without trying to be persuasive and have a massive debate, it does seem fair that I get to say, “No, I don’t think that at all!” if you put a bunch of words into my mouth. And if you think I’m acting in good faith, then I hope you believe me when I say that.