It’s a tough break to make but i think it’s a healthy one. Always welcome to crash overnight if hunting in the UK’s silicone valley (the glorious m4).
I was reluctant to leave Aber, it’s the most comfortable of places but it’s not a place to spend a lifetime IMHO. Shiny futures await. Much as i loved my time there i’ve never been happier than now.
I’ve always preached a gospel of there never being an unnecessary break up but i’ve never found it harder to believe. I’m sure you’ve done everything to be certain that this is it. But it’s still a chaotic topsy-turvydom of my worldview.